Whenever you're in conflict with someone,
there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it.
That factor is attitude.
I have long believed that you cannot like everyone and visa versa be liked by everyone. There will be that 1 person who you do not see eye to eye with , someone who otherwise is absolutely affable and likeble will rub you the wrong way .
Will it be called the Clash of ego or a personality clash.
Personally I cant stand loud people and people who dominate conversations. Boorish behaviour I might I have met quite a few in recent times some old enough to know better and then some young ones who are too smart for there little blue shoes ... while its all right to trumpet about yourself its difficult to make people realise that the earth does not revolve around you and that you are not as interesting as you think you are . Strong words I guess .
I try not to be rude to such people preferring to walk away or clam up .Works out well for me :)
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