For the If only's

"Everyone makes mistakes. That’s why they put erasers on pencils.”

"You can’t change the past, try all you might."

"If you try to fix the past, something is bound to go wrong and the resulting damage may be more devastating than what you were initially trying to amend!

What happens when you don’t know the point to go back to? How do you fix it then?

Some things happen because we make a conscious effort to make them happen. Others just strike us randomly when we leave the gates of our heart unguarded. We don’t always realize that ALL of it matters. Everything that happens, it’s there to stay with us for life. The people we meet who become larger than life. Or the mistakes that haunt us from time to time. Trivial decisions which changed everything. The chances that should have been but we didn’t think. The moments that stick in the memory like glue. And the things that mattered but we never knew.

Too many when’s and too many why’s.